Every morning I have my quiet time where I read and study the scripture with a cup of coffee. I used to get up early for this, but since Sweet Pea has Mommy-radar and would get up with me anyway, I've decided to sleep in. Besides, it gives me the opportunity to talk about my need for and model quiet time for her.
Sometimes she will persistently ask me to "come play with me, Mommy." This is a perfect opportunity for me to explain why I NEED to say "not right now."
It usually goes like this:
"I can't yet, Sweetie. Mommy needs to spend some time with Jesus this morning, so He can help me be a good mommy to you today."
"Why?"
"Because Mommy needs Jesus to help her do what is right."
I want her to understand two things: 1. I need Jesus. 2. This is a sacred time.
I have wanted to allow her the opportunity to learn to have a quiet time herself. My initial goal was for her to sit quietly and "read" her books. Then later I could introduce her Bible and studying and prayer.
This week Mardel had a special on their Veggie Tales Bible Story Book. We bought one and during our morning routine, she used it for "Q is for quiet time."
At first I thought she was just reading it because it was new and it had her favorite characters in it, but I never dreamed the connection she would make.
The other night she grabbed her new Bible book, sat in her chair, and looked through it for about fifteen minutes. Then she looked at me beaming saying, "I did my quiet time like you, Mommy!" My heart smiled at that moment. I prayed with her and she left to play.
Spiritual instruction is the one aspect of parenting that weighs the heaviest on me. Parents are the greatest influence in our children's lives. It's a huge responsibility.
Let me encourage you today. It's not to early or too late to begin. The real shame is not being intentional about passing on your values or faith to your kids. You might not always get it right. And they might not always get it, but when it does click, it will make your heart smile.
What are some ways that you intentionally teach your children about faith?

That is so incredibly sweet that she wanted to do quiet time with you! My daughter is almost one and I am trying to read a little with her so that she knows I am not just ignoring her!
ReplyDelete-Kara @ ALLterNATIVElearning