Each night she chooses books, we read together and talk about the story. She has her favorites that must be read each night. Right now she loves "Chicka Chicka, Boom Boom!" by Bill Martin and John Archambault....Super cute book that she has practically memorized.
Next, we talk about the day. She's only two, but I want to cultivate a time with each of my girls that gives them the opportunity and freedom to talk with Mommy about anything and everything while giving them my undivided attention.
So, each night I ask two questions: 1) what made you happy today? 2) what made you sad today? Of course she is only two and the concept of time is lost on her. Usually I get an appropriate response for what made her happy that day, but not so with the second question. For a month now the same event has made her sad: Mommy made her share her Elmo piano book with a friend.
Each night she expresses her dislike for sharing with her friend. Each night I apologize for her hurt and discuss with her the importance of sharing. Do I expect her to wake up one day and suddenly be okay with sharing? No.
But she is listening. I hear her with her toys in pretend conversation talking about sharing.
I treasure this part of our routine. It offers an amazing opportunity not only for me to speak to her concerns, but to teach, encourage, and guide her. Most importantly, she is learning that Mommy is a safe place to come with her joys and hurts.
What bedtime routine do you have for your littles?
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